Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Update March 22nd 9:21 am

Sorry about no post yesterday the Internet was down. So, I'll update you on the last two days. The doctors have let me know more then once that there were going to be ups and downs, well yesterday we had both. I'll start with Sunday, he was laughing and joking it was like we were well on our way to recovery, and then Monday hit us hard, Acey was really tired and not feeling as well as the day before. The physical and occupational therapist came in and worked with him for awhile and decided to see if he could stand and walk. He went about 10 steps with help from 3 people, he had to rest for awhile then made his way back to his bed. He said that he couldn't believe it would be so hard to walk. His balance is still very poor and his eyes are still jumping around which doesn't help. His head is starting to tremor every once in awhile, and the Doctors are not sure why this is happening, if it's because of being tried or if it has to do with his brain injury, so we are keeping a close eye on that. Yesterday early evening the Doctor came back to see Acey and access him once more, they told us that there is still a chance that there is permanent damage done, and that he may not gain back his motor skills. This was not the news any of us wanted to hear. They said that in the next couple of months we would have a better understanding of the damage that had been done and what long term effects there will be if any.

So today is a whole new day and lots going on. Acey is getting another spinal tap to see if the infection is gone, and possibly having another MRI to look at his brain and see if the swelling is getting any better. He is also heading over to the Moran building to have some tests done on his eyes to make sure that he is not losing anymore of his sight, and hopefully they can figure out some kind of glasses that will help him see better.

I told Acey today that we needed to make a list of all the blessings that we do have, sometimes we just have to stop and look at the bigger picture (which at times is not real easy to do). But it didn't take long to start listing all the blessing that we do have, Acey still alive, he has a sharp mind he is still strong, he is not blind, he is a hard worker, we have 3 wonderful kids who are healthy, we have the gospel in our lives and know that our Heavenly Father is watching us and we are not alone, that we are a family forever and this is just another learning opportunity, Acey and I have a wonderful marriage and we are best friends and are growing closer to each other everyday. While being in this hospital we have seen a lot of tragedies around us and we are so fortunate for the knowledge that no matter what we will always have each other, and that our family will be together forever.

Because of Acey's rare condition, Acey and I have to decided to keep him here for his rehabilitation. University Hospital is well equipped to handle his needs and specialize in Neuro rehabilitation. Plus all of the specialist are right here and they are watching his progress and helping us all along the way. Even though he will not be close to home we feel this will give Acey the best chances of regaining mobility.

11 comments:

  1. Thank you for helping us see the blessings in the midst of our trials. You two are a great example to us all. It is so wonderful to have the gospel and know the Savior is right beside us every step of the way.

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  2. I can't help but smile every time I click on your blog. The first thing I see is your family picture and you're all smiling at me. Families are FOREVER. In times like this it is easy to forget the "BIG picture" and focus on the here and now. I think that your idea to list your belssings will come in more handy than you think! It may be easy for me to say, but I hope you are keeping a "more private" journal of this trial because I think that it will be something very close to your heart and you will want to remember every "miracle" and "trial" that occurs. Thank you so much for posting on your blog and sharing this trial with all of us. It really has helped me appreciate the health and things that I do have because we never know when it may be gone! I love you guys and really hope you know we are thinking and praying for you continuously. Continue to have FAITH! Jami & Zeb

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  3. Acey..sorry about that I mean fIGHTER! I just saw you get up and walk. You amaze me every day. Keep fighting my brother. You will be home before you know it. Love Tera Faye

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  4. I think about you guys constantly. Ace, if anybody can fight this, it is you. And Bellie, your perspective amazes me. You both are in my heart.-Love you- Bean

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  5. I've been quietly following your journey, but want you all to know that you are in my family's prayers every single day! Sending many (((hugs))) and much love your way!

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  6. Your list of blessings brought tears to my eyes. Your faith and testimony to your love and and your forever family was wonderful. You will get through whatever Heavenly Father has in store for you when you put your faith in Him. Remember that especially when times get real tough or Acey has a bad day. Give your best friend a big kiss and tell him we continually pray for him and his sweet family. Sandi

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  7. Thanks so much for posting on the blog and keeping us all informed. You guys are constantly on my mind. Acey we love you and pray for your FULL recovery! Jalyn, I love you so much! Thankyou for all you did for me and helped me with this past year. It is NOTHING compared to what you are facing and it definitely helps bring the important things to life. Your post also brought tears to my eyes. I am so sorry you guys are facing this trial. Heavenly Father loves you all so much and is definitely keeping an eye on you and giving you the strength you need to face each day, even with those ups and downs. Families are Forever and the strength you are all showing helps me and I'm sure many others look and LIST all the blessings we do have instead of our trials. As we learn from you and truly show our gratitude for our trials we each face and be grateful for them, you can't help but feel His LOVE and know He is refining us all into who He needs us to be. You guys are all AMAZING and if there is anything you need done at the house, please let me know!...I'm close by and can check on things and do remember your code this time! lol Love you "J" and Ace and kiddos!

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  8. Keep up the awesome attitude! We have been keeping you all in our family prayers.....keep hanging in there! Plus we hear you have one of the best COTA's around! Kevin and Amy Kerner family

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  9. You guys will do great just cause you are such great people! Miss and Love You. Carla and Rusty

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  10. I know you guys will pull through this. I don't know Acey really well, but I know the drive Jaylyn has to insure he will get to where he needs to be. There is not a day that has gone by that we have not prayed for your family. I have faith Acey will get better and I have faith Jaylyn will have the strenght to insure he gets there. Stay strong...many prayers for your beautiful family.
    The Schoolcraft's

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  11. Good evening:

    I am pleased to hear that you, Jalyn would have the wherewithal and intuitiveness to speak and most importantly, put pen to paper/write down your "blessings". It reminded me of one of my favorite hymns, "Count your many blessings...name them one by one!" I am also reminded of one of Brad and I's favorite songs, "Your Love Amazes Me" when I read your post in regards to your relationship. You should listen to this song. How fortunate you are to have this bond. You made me think about just how precious my family is to me now and many times over these past weeks in reading about your struggles and what I wouldn't do to "support" them during difficult times such as these. I know we can never truly understand what you are going thru but I know that when one of my loved ones, in particular my husband and my children are in the hospital even just for a night or two, I can hardly get a breath and I'd do almost anything to take their pain/ease their pain/struggles. You are a strong "team" I can tell. Take care of you, Jalyn, as well. Keep being strong and you are allowed to have a down day, yourself. It is okay. I know you will be back in the saddle and ready to do what you need to do...you have demonstrated that already. He too will be back in the saddle, as well. It will not be easy by any stretch of the imagination it sounds like but again, YOU can do this...together. Much love and continued prayers, Dona P.S. I am betting that Acey has a better day tomorrow. I am certain that it will take a little bit for a person who was so active/capable/independent to accept his current reality...and then he will get in there and get 'er done...with you at his side all the way...the perfect Ace's Wingman. Fly High...Upward. :)

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